Jasmine's box ＊ 夾子的碎碎念

Ever said you couldn't understand guys? Well, here's the no-excuses truth to understanding guys from Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. Guys aren't complicated - they're either into you or they're not. So, c'mon... you're worth it! Don't waste the pretty on any guy who doesn't know that already. ;)


1. He's just not that into you if he's not asking you out.
---> Because if he likes you, trust me, he will ask you out.


2. He's just not that into you if he's not calling you.
---> Men know how to use the phone.

3. He's just not that into you if he's not dating you.
---> "I don't want to be in a serious relationship" means "I don't want to be in a serious relationship with you." And c'mon... better than nothing is not good enough for you.

4. He's just not that into you if he's having sex with someone else.
---> There's NEVER going to be a good excuse for cheating.

5. He's just not that into you if he only wants to see you when he's drunk.
---> If he likes you, he'll want to see you when his judgement isn't impaired.

6. He's just not that into you if he doesn't want to marry you.
---> LOVE cures commitment-phobia. Greg says: "I'd marry my wife in every time zone if that's what she wanted."

7. He's just not that into you if he's breaking up with you.
---> "I don't want to go out with you" means just that. Don't be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You're deeply missable. However, HE is still the same person who just broke up with you.

8. He's just not that into you if he's disappeared on you.
---> Sometimes you have to get closure all by yourself. In the short term, it may feel good to call someone and yell at him. But in the long run, you will have wished you had not given him that much credit for ruining your life.

9. He's just not that into you if he's married (and other insane variations of being unavailable).
---> If you're not able to love him freely, it's not really love. Unless he's all yours, he's still hers.

10. He's just not that into you if he's a selfish jerk, a bully or a really big freak.
---> If you really love someone, you want to do things that make that person happy. If you date, you will meet your share of wierdos and jerks. The only thing in your control is how long you allow these "gentlemen" to take up space in your life.



Standard suggestions:

* Do not go out with a man who hasn't asked you out first.

* Do not go out with any man who will keep you waiting by the phone.

* Do not date a man who isn't sure he wants to date you.

* Do not date a man who makes you feel sexually undesireable.

* Do not date a man who drinks or does drugs to an extent that makes you uncomfortable.

* Do not date a man who is afraid to talk about your future.

* Do not, under any circumstances, spend your precious time on a man who has already rejected you.

* Do not date a man who is married.

* Do not date a man who is not clearly a good, kind, loving person.


can anyone know where can I get this book?? I can't find it in any book store in china
so if you know any news about this book. PLEASE do let me know.
thanks


BEST lesson from the book...
Never approach guys. let them come to you. men are primal they need the hunt to see you're a good catch
and that is the first mistake I've made. damnnnnnnnnnnnnnn.......
stop laughing!!
hate you!!!!!!!!!